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The Future Belongs to the Self-Made
AI is reshaping the way we live, work and even how we think. Self-Made U teaches you how to stop doubting yourself, take control and confidently achieve your goals.
The Future Belongs to the Self-Made
AI is reshaping the way we live, work and even how we think. Self-Made U teaches you how to stop doubting yourself, take control and confidently achieve your goals.
Is your life moving so fast that you can't keep up? You’re not alone.
We help people who are ready to stop outsourcing their decisions and start living with intention:
- Professionals & entrepreneurs eager to build careers or businesses without burning out
- Single men seeking confidence, clarity on dates and true connections, instead of chasing swipes
- Anyone who feels stuck in their goals, health or relationships and is ready to get back in control
👉 If you’re tired of feeling like the world is running you, you’re in the right place.
The SELF-Made Strategy
Our SELF-Made Strategy is a cyclical process that makes success simple and repeatable. No fluff, no guesswork, just four clear steps you can use and repeat in every aspect of life.
We teach this process across all of our programs—from health and career to dating and personal growth.
Start with You
Eliminate Self-Sabotage
Finish with One Simple Step
Leverage Prodigy Brain Strengths
START WITH YOU
Decide what YOU want and why.
ELIMINATE SELF-SABOTAGE
Identify and overcome limiting beliefs or distractions that might hold you back.
LEVERAGE YOUR STRENGTHS
Tap into your unique abilities to work smarter, not harder.
FINISH WITH ONE SIMPLE STEP
One clear, doable step that creates momentum, confidence and results that compound over time.
Proof it Works
From business breakthroughs to dating transformations, see how our clients use the SELF-Made Strategy to take control of their lives.
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“The value of this program goes way beyond weight loss – it is life changing on all levels. My husband and I joined the weight loss program, and it’s been transformative. The comprehensive teachings gave us more energy, clarity and confidence as we enter into a new phase of life. Self-Made U is simply magical!”
— Kate M.
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“Self-Made U is an absolute gift! I was at a pivotal moment where I knew it was time to make a career change. So I took all my experience, skills and passions and created a business where I could make a difference. The workshops gave me the confidence to grow to levels I never thought possible in such a short amount of time.”
— Erin M.
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“Self-Made U was exactly what I needed to start my own business. I dabbled with foundational work yet most of the big, critical pieces needed developing. Tracy’s guidance helped me work through defining my next steps, and now instead of feeling overwhelmed, I’m excited and creating my very own program, launching VERY soon!”
— Carrie B.
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“Many of my relationships improved since going through Self-Made U. My marriage is stronger than ever after more than 27 years together. I’m more patient and empathetic toward my aging mother and I have more empathy for the people at work who I have previously allowed to make me unhappy. Thank you for everything!”
— Heather Z.
Why we Built Self-Made U
We’re a mother-daughter team proving the future belongs to the Self-Made.
We left the traditional path to build lives and businesses on our own terms. Tracy left corporate America to create Self-Made U, helping thousands of people stop self-sabotage and achieve their goals. Gracie built her own business as a dating coach for men, growing a global following and an engaged online community.
Together, we live what we teach. In a world driven by algorithms and AI, the most valuable skill is learning how to think for yourself and build the life you want.
Our proven process, including the Becoming Self-Made Goal Planner, guides you toward making intentional decisions, overcoming obstacles and creating the results you desire in every area of your life.
Choose your Path to Becoming Self-Made
Our life coaches can help you overcome any challenge through self-awareness and intentional decision-making.
HEALTH & WELLNESS
CAREER & WORK
CONTRIBUTION & GIVING
FINANCES
RELATIONSHIPS
PHYSICAL ENVIRONMENT
ENJOYMENT & FULFILLMENT
PERSONAL GROWTH
Choose your Path to Becoming Self-Made
Our life coaches can help you overcome any challenge through self-awareness and intentional decision-making.
HEALTH & WELLNESS
Are you satisfied with your current health, fitness, nutrition and energy levels?
CAREER & WORK
Is your current role fulfilling, and does it align with your skills, interests and values?
CONTRIBUTION & GIVING
How gratified are you with the difference you’re making in the lives of others?
FINANCES
How content are you with your savings, debt and income levels?
RELATIONSHIPS
How connected are you with the people who matter most to you?
PHYSICAL ENVIRONMENT
How well does your living and working environment support your lifestyle?
ENJOYMENT & FULFILLMENT
Are you content with the variety of fun in your life, or are you stuck in a routine?
PERSONAL GROWTH
Are you continually gaining knowledge to develop yourself in rewarding ways?
Ready to Take Back Control?
Don’t wait for AI, corporations or anyone else to decide your future. Becoming Self-Made starts with one decision.
Join us now and find the solution you deserve.
The Benefits of Becoming Self-Made
Knowing your deeper reasons keeps you committed to your goals
Understanding your "why" helps you make better decisions
A strong purpose helps you overcome challenges
Aligning goals with your values leads to more fulfilling success
Your Membership Includes
PERSONALIZED COACHING
- Access to discounted 1:1 coaching sessions for tailored guidance
- Group coaching twice a week, with live and on-demand sessions for flexibility
EXCLUSIVE LEARNING OPPORTUNITIES
- Weekly workshops focused on life strategies and ongoing personal growth
- Access to the SMU Certification Program
SPECIAL PERKS
- Exciting giveaways and prizes to reward community engagement
SUPPORT & ACCOUNTABILITY
- Connect with a community of like-minded individuals who inspire and motivate
- Engage in Becoming Self-Made Challenges to stay on track and achieve goals
This membership is designed to empower you every step of the way!
Our Journals & Planners Help You Achieve BIG Goals, One Decision at a Time
More than just for surface-level productivity—these are your daily guides to becoming self-made. Whether you’re setting personal goals, resetting your health or building dating confidence, our journals and planners help you think, feel and live with intention.
✓ Becoming Self-Made Goal Planner: Aligns daily tasks with your thoughts and values for purposeful and balanced life.
✓ Self-Made Man: Dating Edition: A daily playbook for dating with clarity, confidence and intention—rooted in our proven coaching strategy.
✓ Self-Made Mind & Body 12-Week Reset: Builds sustainable habits to help you reconnect and transform from within.
Inside each journal or planner, you’ll:
✓ Leverage your strengths
✓ Recognize and overcome self-sabotaging patterns
✓ Make confident, aligned decisions
These tools don’t just organize your life—they help you own it. Ready to think differently, feel in control, and create real results? Start with one—or collect all three.
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Experience our Community and Group Coaching Anytime, Anywhere
Join our community for weekly classes that offer the empowerment and motivation you need. You can also sign up for private, 1:1 coaching for mindful conversations on your toughest challenges.
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“The way my mind was geared towards food before starting Self-Made U never served me properly. The coaches helped me change that mentality and find more positivity and happiness in my mind, body and spirit! If you’re looking for that change you’ve been telling yourself you need…this is it. Time to be the best version of yourself.”
— Jessica R.
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“Focusing on meaningful goals and mindful habits transformed my life. I have less stress, more sleep and quality of work have improved immensely! I’ve also learned to value progress and purpose over external validation while embracing mindful eating without guilt. This journey has empowered me to live a balanced, fulfilling life.”
— Lynda B.
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“When I decided to launch my own business I wanted maximum success. Based on Tracy’s success, I knew she was the right life coach for me. Her dedicated to my success was incredible. Be prepared for two things: to do real work necessary to start a successful business AND to learn more than you thought you needed. Tracy is THE BEST!”
— Maria R.
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“This program is amazing!! I don’t even recognize the person at my son’s graduation in June of 2019. Today, I feel like the weight of the world has been lifted off my shoulders. With the help of the Self-Made U workshops and the incredible coaching, I learned how to think differently about food, my life and now I am in control of it all!”
– Rhonda F.